Tantra: Sex Magic

Sex Magic Reality Creation Process
I want to share something I call the Sex Magic Reality Creation Process (SMRCP). It is a powerful tool that is appropriate for deliberate reality creation. As many of you know, I've been practising Tantra/Sacred Sexuality for many years and have enjoyed wonderful benefits from it. One of my favourite areas of study is Sex Magic. I've successfully incorporated the SMRCP in my reality creation toolbox. It is with much joy that I share it with you, have some fun with it.
Background:
Sex is one of the most (some say THE most) powerful energies on the planet. To grasp its awesome and often overlooked power, take a look at the starving Somalis. Take away their food, take away their dignity, humiliate and torture them and THEY STILL MAKE BABIES.
Within our loins lies an energy that has the potential to create ANY reality we want. Unfortunately, most humans have a love/hate relationship with sex that is reflected in many ways (i.e., unsafe promiscuity, self-destructive perversions, denial, shutdown, religious intolerance, rape, abuse, etc.). Religion has done much to suppress our divine sexual nature and has kept the masses ignorant of the potential uses of sexual energy.
When we accept and embrace our sexual nature we are free to use its awesome power for our benefit. We no longer worship it or deny it. We come into balance and view our sexuality as part of our divinity. It becomes joyful, light and loving. We learn to use sex for more than procreation or sensual gratification.
I want to make a comment about celibacy. Many people, including so-called enlightened teachers and religious figures, misunderstand celibacy. True celibacy is not a denial or suppression of sexual energy. True celibacy is when one chooses to focus/channel their sexual energy, in non-sexual ways, into other areas of their being. There are many ways to do this but Sex Magic is not one of them since it involves sexual stimulation. Tantra embraces both the sexual path and the celibate path.
Sex is creative energy. Magic is the art of creating reality.
True magic is simply the art of creating what you want. We can liken all the processes given to us by masters and teachers (Seth, Alexander, Abraham, Avatar, etc.), as tools in our magician's or Shaman's bag. People who consciously and deliberately create their reality are the ultimate magicians on the planet.
Sex Magic:
Sex Magic is based on the belief that the most powerful moment of human existence is the orgasm. Sex Magic is the art of utilizing sexual orgasm to create a reality and/or expand consciousness. All senses and psychic powers are heightened during orgasm. It is a moment when a window opens to the unlimited abundance of the unlimited universe.
Now, some may argue that they fantasize about some person or event during sex and it never materializes into a reality. This is because most of us, at the moment of orgasm, lose our focus and get lost in the physical response. That's okay, there's nothing wrong with using sex for pure pleasure. That intention is also a created reality. The SMRCP is about maintaining one's focus during orgasm and channelling the energy into creating a reality. Any reality, whether it's creating a new job, car, experience, relationship, etc.
The Process:
Relax and breathe deeply. Breathing deeply is key to the success of Sex Magic. Take your time and relax your body, especially your jaw and belly.
Identify what you want to create. It's important to choose something that really excites you. Make it specific. You can write it down or say it out loud as a mantra or affirmation. Make it in the present tense or as if it's a reality already (i.e., "I earn $85,000 per year.")
Focus on the creation. See, hear, taste, smell and feel the creation as if it's real. Visualize yourself in the creation. For example, what is your life like when you earn that $85,000? What does it FEEL like? Make it big, in Technicolour, with all your focus and intention. Breathe into it. Now, when you've identified the feeling and/or picture that best captures what you want to create, FILE IT AWAY in your mind and relax. (You may want to practice a bit with this step before proceeding.)
Do whatever brings you almost to orgasm. This can be masturbation or sexual activity with a supportive partner. Remember to relax and breathe into your orgasmic state. Take your time. Bring yourself almost to orgasm, backing off just before the point-of- no-return, several or more times. What you're doing here is charging up the sexual battery.
I'll digress here for a moment. It's easier for women to do this process because orgasm is usually not an energy drain for them (as long as they're not engaging in wild, aerobic and physically exhausting sex). Women are able to climax multiple times ("Riding the Bliss-Wave" in Tantra) gaining tremendous energy from it. So, to my sisters, I encourage you to relax, breathe, and have fun. It's also very helpful to strengthen your PC/vaginal muscle and get in touch with your G/Sacred Spot. There are many good books which cover this. My favourite is "The Art of Sexual Ecstasy" by Margo Anand. I'll do a follow-up post about the "Yoni Massage" that you can use with a supportive partner in conjunction with the SMRCP.
The men are another story because their orgasmic energy is usually expelled out of their pelvis, in their semen, and out of their body. Fortunately this can be handled! Unfortunately I won't be able to teach you within the limits of USENET and e-mail. I encourage my brothers to learn and practice the art of ejaculatory control (I prefer the term Ejaculatory Mastery) and create an INjaculation. There are several good books about this. Margo Anand's book covers this. For the time being, just relax, breathe and come CLOSE to ejaculation SIX times before you release your semen. I'll follow-up with the "Lingam Massage" that you can use with a supportive partner in conjunction with the SMRCP.
When you have almost reached orgasm, after coming close several times and you're ready to let go, recall from your mind the reality you want to create and energize it with focused intention. Make it vivid, exciting, big and beautiful.
When you orgasm, keep focused on the picture/creation and deliberately channel the orgasm into it. Just let it flow into the reality you want to create. Remember to keep breathing during the orgasm and breathe your orgasmic energy into your creation/ goal/dream/reality. Stay focused and hold the picture. Your body will do the rest (this is why a partner is very helpful -- they can do the physical work for you :-).
You can repeat the process if you want to come to another orgasm.
The reality will create itself immediately or will be buffered by time. It may also manifest as an opportunity, insight, healing, etc. The power of the SMRCP will blow your mind as you master it! Have fun with your creations.
 

The G Spot FAQ

THE GRAFENBERG SPOT FAQ


Version 1.1
(c) Gnostalgia 1995
This is a semi-comprehensive guide composed of excerpts from women's health and
sexuality books designed to answer:
  What is the G-Spot?
  What is Female Ejaculation?
  How do I find the G-Spot?
  Does everyone have a G-Spot?
  How does one stimulate the G-Spot?



QUESTIIONS
  WHAT IS THE G-SPOT?
  The Grafenberg spot is an area on the anterior or front wall of the vagina,
  between the opening and the cervix, which is often found to be extremely
  sensitive to stimulation. It is hypothesized that the G-spot is either 1) a
  bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris, or 2) a gland or series of glands
  that produces lubrication. It is thought to be perhaps analagous to the
  prostate gland in men.
  WHAT IS FEMALE EJACULATION?
  Female ejaculation is the expelling of fluid from or around the urethra. This
  fluid is not urine, and is often accompanied by a powerful orgasm. Stimulation
  of the G-Spot is thought to potentially cause this.
  HOW DO I FIND THE G-SPOT?
  Insert one or two fingers in the vagina with the palm facing the pubic bone.
  Gently bend your fingers 'forward' so that they stroke the anterior wall of
  the vagina. You may feel a raised spot or series of ridges, or you may feel
  nothing in particular. The woman may find this extremely pleasurable, or have
  an urge to urinate, or both. Stroking this spot with varying degrees of
  pressure will tell you if you've got it or not.
  DOES EVERYONE HAVE A G-SPOT?
  No. Your mileage may vary. Just as some woman find clitoral stimulation more
  or less pleasurable than others, G-spot response varies from woman to woman,
  and some may find it unpleasant or simply not special.
  HOW DOES ONE STIMULATE THE G-SPOT?
  Silly, that's a technique question. The factual stuff is above; anything else
  goes to Kama Sutra>.



FURTHER INFORMATION
Ms. Magazine (November/December 1995)
One of the more hotly contested debates concerns whether women can ejaculate.
Reports have generally dismissed as tales told by women trying to cover up the
fact that they'd "wet the bed." Many sexologists and physicians continue to
label it "urine" (despite the fact that there is no telltale ammonia smell),
"vaginal secretions," or even "leftover bathwater" (a la Masters and Johnson).
Beverly Whipple is one of the several sex researchers who have conducted studies
on female ejaculation, and her findings, while not definitive, are intriguing.
Whipple and others have analyzed women's "ejaculate" and found that it is
chemically similar to men's ejaculate. They've also idenitified tiny glands
embedded in the dense tissues surrounding the urethra that may be the source of
this fluid.
So, if all women have these glands, why don't we all ejaculate when we climax,
just like men do? Researchers speculate that the amount of fluid varies, as it
does in men, and may at times be so small as to not be noticed; may be confused
with other vaginal secretions that occur during arousal; or, during heterosexual
sex, may be mistaken for a man's ejaculate.
Does any of this matter? Some people find it preposterous the idea that women
have have Prostate glands. But as Whipple says, "Women who experience this have
reported secretly suppressing orgasms out of fear of wetting the bed." She notes
that some women have had unnecessary surgery to cure "incontinence." Knowing
that ejaculation maybe perfectly normal is an important step in owning and
accepting our sexuality.
The New Our Bodies, Ourselves by the Boston Women's Health Book Collective:
"Two researches have recently identified what they call the Grafenberg spot
(G-spot), a sensitive area just behind the front wall of the vagina between the
back of the pubic bone and the cervix. They say that when this spot is
stimulated during sex through vaginal penetration of some kind, some women
orgasm with a gush of fluid FROM THE URETHRA, which is NOT URINE. [emphasis
mine]
This is at present a controversial theory among sex researchers. It's a relief
for those women who feel a urethral gushing of liquid during orgasm to find an
explanation for this apparent ejaculation, and for some others to find what may
be another source of pleasure"--pg. 211
The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Cathy Winks and Anne Semans:
"Continuous stimulation of the urethral sponge can cause the paraurethral glands
to fill up with a clear, odorless fluid which is sometimes expelled frm the body
THROUGH THE URETHRA. This ejaculation can accompany orgasm or simply be part of
arousal. Ejaculation and orgasm are two distinct physiological phenomena in both
women and men. Female ejaculation has been around as long as females have been
around. Until recently, however, medical literature dismissed anecdotal
evidence, suggesting that instead ejaculation was urinary incontinence...
In recent years, female ejaculate has been chemically analyzed and determined to
be DISTINCT FROM URINE [emphasis mine] in its composition...
If you've never experienced ejaculation and would like to, try incorporating
G-spot stimulation into your usual masturbation techniques. As your urethral
sponge grows more swollen and sensitive, bear down with your pelvic muscles.
Women's experiences of ejaculation can range from simply feeling more wet than
usual to shooting jets of fluid... We are pleased that female ejaculation is now
acknowledged as a genuine sexual response, but we don't like to see it promoted
as a new goal that every woman should stive to achieve."--pgs. 27-8
Lesbian Sex, by JoAnn Loulan:
"The urethra also carries ejaculate from the Graftenberg spot to the outside...
The paraurethral sponge is a dense concentration of blood vessels wrapped around
the urethra with the largest portion under the urethra next to the outer wall of
the vagina. Within the sponge is the paraurethral gland. This gland produces a
watery fluid which is sometimes called ejaculate." Little is known about the
paraurethral gland while much research has been done on the corresponing
prostate gland in the male. Big surprise.
The commonly heard term, Grafenberg, or "G" spot, refers to the place in the
vagine where one can stimulate the sponge. It is about two inches up from the
entrance to the vagina towards to front of the body. To find it, put your
fingers inside your vagina with the finger tips towards your front and move the
fingers up and down. The sponge swells when stimulated, and you may feel like
you have to pee, or it may give you a pleasurable sensation. With continued
stimulation, a fluid (ejaculate) is produced in the gland and through its ducts
in the sponge is sometimes sprayed out of the body via the urethra. It may feel
like a lot of liquid, but it usually is a few teaspoonfuls to half a cup...
Ejaculation usually happens at a different time than orgasm. Some women who
ejaculate don't have orgasms at all. Others do both, but ejaculation and orgasm
are different processes and are not tied to one another. Some women in fact
don't even feel it when they do ejaculate."--pgs. 34-5.

Sexual Dictionary

A

·         ACAROPHILIA: Affinity for itching

·         ACHLUOPHILIA: Love of darkness

·         ACMEGENESIS: Orgasm

·         ACOMOCLITIC: Preference for hairless genitals

·         ACOUSTICOPHILIA: Arousal from sounds

·         ACROPHILIA: Arousal from heights or high altitudes

·         ACROTOMOPHILIA: Arousal from amputees

·         ACTIRASTY: To become aroused from exposure to sun's rays

·         ACUCULLOPHALIA: Circumcision

·         ACYESIS: Female sterility

·         ADAMITISM: Going naked for God

·         ADOLESCENTILISM: Cross-dressing or playing the role of an adolescent

·         AELUROPHILIA: Deriving gratification from cats

·         AGALMATOPHILIA: Attractions to statues or mannequins

·         AGAMIC: Asexual; parthenogenic

·         AGENOBIOSIS: Married couple who consent to live together without sex

·         AGONOPHILIA: Person who is aroused by a partner pretending to struggle

·         AGORAPHILIA: Arousal from open spaces or having sex in public places

·         AGREXOPHILIA: Arousal from others knowing you are having sex

·         AICHMOPHILIA: Love of needles and other pointed objects

·         AISCHROLATREIA: Worship of filth, smut; obscenity cult

·         ALBUTOPHILIA: Arousal from water

·         ALGOLAGNIA: Sexual satisfaction resulting from giving or receiving pain; sadism or masochism

·         ALIPHINEUR: Person using lotion to arouse a partner

·         ALLOERASTY: Use of nudity of another person to arouse a partner

·         ALLOPELLIA: Having orgasm from watching others engaging in sex

·         ALLORGASMIA: Arousal from fantasizing about someone other than one's partner

·         ALLOTRIORASTY: Arousal from partners of other nations or races

·         ALPHAMEGAMIA: Attraction to partners of another age group

·         ALTOCALCIPHILIA: High heel fetish

·         ALVINOLAGNIA: Stomach fetish

·         AMATRIPSIS: Masturbation by rubbing labia together

·         AMAUROPHILIA: Preference for a blind or blindfolded sex partner

·         AMAXOPHILIA: Attraction to riding in cars and motor vehicles

·         AMBISEXTROUS: Pertaining to a bisexual person

·         AMELOTASIS: Attraction to absence of limb

·         AMOKOSCISIA: Arousal or sexual frenzy with desire to slash or mutilate women

·         AMOMAXIA: Sex in a parked car

·         AMPHIEROTISM: Capacity of erotic reaction toward either sex

·         AMPHIGENTIC INVERT: An individual who regularly engages in sexual activity with persons of both genders

·         AMPHISEXUAL: Bisexual

·         AMULIEROSIS: Result of sexual privacy

·         AMYCHESIS: Act of scratching partner during sexual passion

·         AMYCHOPHILIA: Deriving sexual pleasure from being scratched

·         ANACLITISM: Arousal from items used as infant

·         ANACREONTIC: Erotic

·         ANALINCTUS: Licking the anus

·         ANALINGUS: Rimming or penetration of anus with tongue

·         ANASTEEMAPHILIA: Attraction to a person because of a difference in height

·         ANAXIPHILIA: Act of falling in love with a loser by someone who should know better

·         ANDROGYNY: Having both male and female characteristics

·         ANDROGYNOPHILIA: Bisexual

·         ANDROIDISM: Arousal from robots with human features

·         ANDROMANIA: Nymphomania

·         ANDROMINETOPHILIA: Arousal from female partner who dresses like male

·         ANDROSODOMY: Anal sex with a male partner

·         ANILILAGNIA: Sexual desire for older women

·         ANISONOGAMIST: Attraction to either older or younger partners

·         ANOCRATISM: Anal sex

·         ANOMEATIA: Anal sex with a female partner

·         ANOPHELORASTIA: Arousal from defiling or ravaging a partner

·         ANOPHILEMIA: Kissing anus

·         ANORAPTUS: Rapist who only attacks elderly women

·         ANTHOLAGNIA: Arousal from smelling flowers

·         ANTHROPOPHAGOLAGNIA: Rape with cannibalism

·         ANTHROPOPHAGY: Pleasure derived from the ingestion of human flesh

·         ANTIPUDIC: Covering one’s genitals

·         ANTIOPHILIA: Fondness for floods

·         APELLOUS: Circumcision

·         APHALLATIA: Celibacy

·         APHEPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from being touched

·         APHILOPHRENIA: A feeling that one is unloved or unwanted

·         APISTIA: Adultery

·         APODYSOPHILIA: Feverish desire to undress

·         APOTEMNOPHILIA: Person who has sexual fantasies about losing a limb

·         ARACHNEPHILIA: Attraction to spiders

·         ARPAGEE: A raped woman

·         ARRHENOTHIGMOPHILOUS: Nymphomania

·         ARSOMETRY: Anal sex

·         ASCETICISM: Religious self-denial often including celibacy

·         ASPHYXIAPHILIA: Arousal from lack of oxygen

·         ASTHENOLAGNIA: Arousal from weakness or being humiliated

·         ASTYPHIA: Impotence

·         ASYNODIA: Celibacy particularly due to impotence

·         AULOPHILIA: Love of flutes

·         AUTAGONISTOPHILIA: Exhibitionism; arousal from exposing naked body or genitals to strangers while on stage or while being photographed

·         AUTASSASSINOPHILIA: Arousal from orchestrating one's own death by the hands of another

·         AUTOEROTIC ASPHYXIA: Arousal from oxygen deprivation and sometimes risk of dying

·         AUTOGYNEPHILIA: Arousal from crossdressing

·         AUTOMASOCHISM: Arousal from inflicting intense sensations of pain on one's own body

·         AUTONEPIOPHILIA: Sexual attraction from dressing or being treated like an infant

·         AUTOPEDERASTY: The insertion of one's own penis into their anus

·         AVERING: A boy’s begging in the nude to arouse sympathy

·         AVISODOMY: Breaking the neck of a bird while penetrating it for sex

·         AXILLISM: The use of the armpit for sex

B

·         BATHYCOLPIAN: Possessing a large bosom

·         BATRACHOPHILIA: Attraction to frogs

·         BELONEPHILIA: Arousal from pins or needles

·         BIASTOPHILIA: Pleasure from forcible rape of a terrified stranger

·         BLISSOM: To copulate with an ewe

·         BOLLOCKS: Testicles

·         BOTULINONIA: Sex with a sausage

·         BROMIDROPHILIA: Arousal from bodily smells

·         BRONTOPHILIA: Love of thunderstorms

C

·         CALLIPYGIAN: Having shapely buttocks

·         CANOPHILIA: Turned on by dogs

·         CAPNOLAGNIA: Arousal from watching others smoke

·         CAPONIZE: To castrate a chicken

·         CATAGELOPHILIA: Love of being ridiculed

·         CATAMENIA: Menstruation

·         CATAMITE: A boy used in homosexual relations

·         CHASMOPHILIA: Attraction to nooks, crannies, crevices, and chasms

·         CHEIMAPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from cold or winter

·         CHIONOPHILIA: Love of snow

·         CHREMATISTOPHILIA: Arousal from being charged for sex or robbed

·         CHRYSOPHILIA: Arousal from gold or golden objects

·         CLAUSTROPHILIA: Love of being confined in small places

·         CLIMACOPHILIA: Deriving pleasure by falling down stairs

·         COMMASCULATION: Homosexuality between men

·         CONCUPISCENCE: Excessive sexual desire

·         CONTRECTATION: The love play preceding sexual intercourse

·         CONVERTITE: A reformed prostitute

·         COPROLOGY: The study of pornography

·         COPROPHEMIA: Obscene language

·         COPROPHILIA: A fancier of feces

·         CRATOLAGNIA: Arousal from strength

·         CRUROPHILIA: Sexual arousal from legs

·         CYPRIAN: Lecherous

·         CYPRIDOPHOBIA: Fear of getting venereal disease

·         CYPRIPAREUNIA: Sexual intercourse with a prostitute

D

·         DACRYPHILIA: Arousal from seeing tears in the eyes of a partner

·         DASYPYGAL: Having hairy buttocks

·         DENDROPHILIA: Attraction to trees

·         DEOSCULATE: To kiss affectionately

·         DEPUSCELATE: To lose one’s virginity

·         DIGENESIS: Alternately sexual and asexual reproduction

·         DIGENOUS: Bisexual

·         DIOESTRUM: The time when a female animal is not in heat

·         DORAPHILIA: Love of animal skins

·         DOWCET: A deer’s testicle

·         DYSTYCHIPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from accidents

E

·         ECDEMOLAGNIA: Arousal from traveling or being away from home

·         ECDYSIAST: A stripper

·         EDEA: The external genitals

·         ELUMBATED: Weak in the loins

·         EMETOPHILIA: Arousal from vomit or vomiting

·         EMMENOLOGY: The study of menstruation

·         ENCEINTE: Pregnant

·         ENCRATY: Abstinence

·         EONISM: Transvestitism

·         EPHEBOPHILIA: Compelling need for an older person to seek adolescent partners for sexual gratification

·         EPICENE: Pertaining to both sexes

·         EPIGAMIC: Tending to attract the opposite sex during mating season

·         EPISTEMOPHILIA: Abnormal preoccupation with acquiring knowledge (This best describes me)

·         EREMOPHILIA: Maniacal desire to be left alone

·         ERGOPHILIA: Love of work and labor

·         EROTOPHOBIA: Fear of sexual love

·         EROTOPHONPHILIA: Attaining sexual satisfaction from murdering complete strangers

·         ERYTHROPHILIA: Becoming aroused by blushing

·         EUNUCHATE: To make a eunuch

·         EVIRATION: Emasculation, castration

F

·         FAM: To grope a woman

·         FEMORAL COITUS: Penis-thigh sex

·         FESCENNINE: Vulgar

·         FISSIPARISM: Reproduction by fissioning

·         FORMICOPHILIA: Enjoyment of the use of insects for sexual purposes

·         FRICATRICE: A whore

·         FROTTEUR: A person aroused by brushing up against clothed people in public places

·         FURTLING: The use of fingers underneath cut-outs in genital areas of photos for arousal

G

·         GAMIC: Sexual

·         GAMOPHOBIA: Fear of marriage

·         GENICON: A sexual partner imagined by one who is dissatisfied with her actual partner

·         GENOPHOBIA: Fear of sex

·         GERONOSEXUALITY: An attraction where the object of desire is 30 years older or more

·         GERONTOPHILIA: Arousal from an older partner

·         GODEMICHE: A dildo

·         GOMPHIPOTHIC: Arousal by the sight of teeth

·         GRAPHOLAGNIA: Maniacal interest in obscene pictures

·         GRIVOISERIE: Lewd and lascivious behavior

·         GUNZEL: A passive, orally oriented, male homosexual

·         GYMNOPHOBIA: Fear of nudity

·         GYNANDER: A female pseudo-hermaphrodite

·         GYNANDRY: Hermaphroditism

·         GYNOPHOBIA: Fear of women

·         GYNOTIKOLOBOMASSOPHILIA: Deriving sexual pleasure by nibbling on a woman’s earlobe

H

·         HAMARTOPHILIA: Love of committing sinful acts

·         HAPTEPHILIA: Arousal by being touched

·         HARPAXOPHILIA: Getting pleasure by robbery or being robbed

·         HEAUTONTIMORUMENOS: Masochist

·         HEBETIC: Happening at puberty

·         HEDONOPHOBIA: Fear of pleasure

·         HEMATOLAGNIA: Sexual stimulation from blood

·         HEMIPENIS: One of the paired sex organs of many reptiles

·         HETAERISM: Extramarital sex; communal marriage

·         HOMILOPHILIA: Arousal from hearing or giving sermons

·         HYMENORRHEXIS: Defloration of the hymen

·         HYPNOPHILIA: Turned on by the thought of sleeping

I

·         ICOLAGNIA: Arousal from contemplation of, or contact with sculptures or pictures

·         INCUBUS: A male demon who has intercourse with a woman while she is sleeping

·         INFANTILISM: Attraction to childhood items

·         IPSISM: Masturbation

·         IRRUMATION: Fellatio

·         ISOPHILIC: Relating to same gender affection sans sex

·         ITHYPHALLIC: Pertaining to the phallus carried in Bacchanalian festivals; lewd

J

·         JOCKER: A male homosexual

K

·         KAINOTOPHILIA: Getting pleasure from change

·         KAKORRHAPHIOPHILIA: Arousal from failure

·         KALOPSIA: Condition where things appear more beautiful than they really are (e.g. when you’re drunk)

·         KENOPHILIA: Attraction to empty or open spaces

·         KERAUNOPHILIA: Turned on by thunder and lightning

·         KINESOPHILIA: Arousal from movement and exercise

·         KLISMAPHILIA: Sexual pleasure from enemas

·         KNISSOPHILIA: Attraction to incense-burning

·         KOPOPHILIA: Arousal from physical or mental exhaustion

L

·         LAGNOSIS: Satyriasis

·         LALIOPHILIA: Arousal from public speaking

·         LALOCHEZIA: Talking dirty to relieve tension

·         LAPAROHYSTEROSALPINGOOOPHORECTOMY: Surgical removal of the female reproductive organs

·         LEMAN: A mistress or lover

·         LENOCINANT: Lewd

·         LIGYROPHILIA: Turned on by loud noises

·         LILAPSOPHILIA: Arousal from tornadoes

·         LOBCOCK: A large, relaxed penis

·         LITHOPHILIA: Attraction to stones, gravel, or mud

·         LOVERTINE: Addicted to love-making

·         LUPANARIAN: Lubricious, lascivious, lewd

·         LYGOPHILIA: Love of darkness

·         LYSSOPHILIA: Sexual arousal from becoming angry or upset

M

·         MACHLAENOMANIA: Masochism in women

·         MACROMASTIC: Pertaining to large breasts

·         MACROPHILIA: Attraction to giants or giant creatures

·         MAIESIOPHILIA: Arousal from childbirth or pregnant women

·         MAMMILLATED: Having nipples

·         MANIAPHILIA: Attraction to insane people

·         MANUSTUPRATION: Masturbation

·         MASTIGOPHILIA: Sexual gratification from punishment or being whipped; masochism

·         MATUTOLAGNIA: Antemerdian sexual desire

·         MAZOPHILIA: Compulsion for breasts

·         MECHANOPHILIA: Turned on by machines

·         MEGALOPHILIA: Arousal from large objects (not necessarily fat)

·         MELISSOPHILIA: Attraction to bees

·         MENACME: The menstruating part of a woman’s life

·         MENOPHANIA: The onset of menstruation; false menstruation

·         MENTULATE: Possessing a large penis; well-hung

·         MERKIN: A pubic hair wig

·         METOPOPHILIA: Turned on by a person’s face

·         METROPHILIA: Arousal from poetry

·         MISAPODYSIS: Hatred of undressing in front of someone

·         MISEROTIA: Aversion to sex

·         MIXOSCOPIA: Orgasm achieved by watching one’s beloved have sex with someone else; voyeurism

·         MOLYSMOPHILIA: Attraction to dirt, filth, or contamination (see MYSOPHILIA)

·         MONOECIOUS: Hermaphroditic

·         MONORCHID: Having one testicle

·         MULIEBRITY: Assumption of female characteristics by a male

·         MULTIGRAVIDA: A woman who has been pregnant more than once

·         MUSOPHILIA: Attraction to mice

·         MYSOPHILIA: Love of dirt or becoming dirty

N

·         NANOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to a short partner

·         NARRATOPHILIA: Arousal from erotic conversations

·         NASOPHILIA: Arousal from the sight, touch, licking, or sucking of a partner's nose.

·         NEANILAGNIA: A yen for nymphets

·         NEBULOPHILIA: Arousal from fog

·         NECROPHILIA: Sexual gratification only by having sex with the dead

·         NEMOPHILIA: Love of forests

·         NEOLAGNIUM: Puberty

·         NEOPHILIA: Arousal from anything new

·         NOSOPHILIA: Love of becoming ill

·         NOTHOSONOMIA: Calling someone a bastard

·         NOVERCAMANIA: Sexual attraction to one’s stepmother

·         NYCTOPHILIA: Love of night

·         NYMPHOLEPSY: Trance incurred by erotic daydreams

O

·         OBSOLAGNIUM: Waning sexual desire due to age

·         OCHLOPHILIA: Attraction to crowds

·         OCNOPHILE: Someone chronically dependent on their lover

·         OCULOLINCTUS: The act of licking a partner's eyeball

·         ODYNOPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from pain; masochism

·         OIKOPHILIA: Attraction to one’s home

·         OLFACTOPHILIA: Sexual gratification from smells

·         OMBROPHILIA: Turned on by rain or being rained upon

·         ONANISM: Masturbation

·         OPHELIMITY: The ability to please sexually

·         OPHIDIOPHILIA: Arousal from snakes

·         ORNITHOPHILIA: Love of birds

·         OSMOLAGNIA: Arousal caused by bodily odors, such as sweat or menses

·         OSPHRESIOPHILIA: An inordinate love of smells

·         OZOLAGNIA: Arousal from odors

P

·         PANTOPHILIA: Arousal from just about everything imaginable

·         PAPHIAN: Erotic; pertaining to illicit love

·         PAPILLA: A nipple

·         PARACOITA: A female sexual partner

·         PARACOITUS: A male sexual partner

·         PAREUNIA: Sexual intercourse

·         PARTHENOLATRY: Virgin worship

·         PARTHENOPHILIA: Attraction only to virgins

·         PECCATOPHILIA: Arousal from sinning or having committed an imaginary crime

·         PEDIOPHILIA: Attraction to dolls

·         PEDOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to children

·         PENIAPHILIA: Erotic fascination with poverty

·         PENTHERAPHILIA: Sexual attraction to one’s mother-in-law

·         PEODEIKTOPHILIA: Sexual arousal from exhibitionism

·         PEOTOMY: Surgical amputation of the penis

·         PESSARY: A vaginal suppository

·         PHALLATION: Movement of the penis in sexual intercourse

·         PHILOPHOBIA: Fear of falling in love or of being loved

·         PHILOPORNIST: A lover of prostitutes

·         PHRONEMOPHILIA: Turned on by the act of thinking

·         PHTHIRIOPHILIA: Attraction to lice

·         PHYGEPHILIA: Arousal from being a fugitive

·         PICTOPHILIA: Arousal only from looking at erotic pictures

·         PIZZLE: A whip made of an animal’s penis

·         PLACOPHILIA: Arousal from tombstones

·         PLANISTETHIC: Flat-chested

·         PLUVIOPHILIA: Sexual stimulation from rain or being rained upon

·         PNIGOPHILIA: Aroused from people choking

·         POINEPHILIA: Turned on by punishment; masochism

·         PONOPHILIA: Attraction to overwork

·         PORNERASTIC: Licentious, lewd, and horny

·         PORNOCRACY: A government by prostitutes

·         PORNOLAGNIA: Desire for prostitutes

·         POTAMOPHILIA: Arousal from streams and rivers

·         PREMENACMIUM: Life before menstruation begins

·         PRESBYTOREAN: An erotic poem

·         PRIAPISM: Persistent and painful erection, usually the result of a disease

·         PRONOVALENCE: Ability to have sexual intercourse in a prone position only

·         PSELLISMOPHILIA: Becoming aroused by stuttering

·         PTERIDOMANIA: An intense desire for ferns

·         PTERONOPHILIA: Sexual gratification from being tickled by feathers

·         PUCELAGE: Virginity

·         PUNQUETTO: A prostitute

·         PUTANISM: Prostitution

·         PYGMALIIONISM: Falling in love with one’s creation (a la "My Fair Lady")

·         PYGOPHILIA: Aroused from buttocks

·         PYROLAGNIA: Sexual stimulation from watching fires

Q

·         QUADOSHKA: American Indian form of tantric sex

·         QUEENING: Sitting on the side of a person's face as a form of bondage

·         QUIM: The vagina

R

·         RAMMISH: Lustful and horny

·         RANTALLION: One whose scrotum is longer than his penis

·         RENIFLEUR: One who gets sexual pleasure from body smells

·         RÉTIFISM: Foot and shoe fetishism, including using the shoe for masturbation

·         RETROCOPULATION: Fornicating from behind ("Doggie position")

·         RHABDOPHILIA: Finding pleasure in being severely criticized

·         RHYTIPHILIA: Arousal from facial wrinkles

·         RUTTISH: Horny; in heat

S

·         SACOFRICOSIS: The practice of cutting a hole in the bottom of a front pant pocket in order to masturbate in public with less risk of detection

·         SAPPHISM: Lesbianism

·         SCELEROPHILIA: Attraction to bad guys or unsavory characters

·         SCOPTOPHILIA: Voyeurism

·         SCOTOPHILIA: Turned on by darkness

·         SDRUCCIOLA: Copulate

·         SEPTOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to decaying matter

·         SIDERODROMOPHILIA: Arousal from riding in trains

·         SITOPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from eating

·         SOCERAPHILIA: Excitement from one’s parents-in-law

·         SOPHOPHILIA: Sexual gratification from learning

·         SOROPHILIA: Attraction to one’s sister

·         SPADONISM: Eunuchry

·         SPECTROPHILIA: Arousal from looking at oneself in a mirror

·         SPERMATOPHOBIA: Fear of semen

·         SPINTRY: A male whore

·         STASIVALENCE: Ability to have sexual intercourse only while standing

·         STAUROPHILIA: Arousal from the cross or crucifix

·         STHENOLAGNIA: Arousal from displaying strength or muscles

·         STUPRATION: Rape

·         STYGIOPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from thoughts of hell

·         SUBAGITATION: Copulation

·         SUCCUBUS: A female demon who seduces men in their sleep

·         SUPINOVALENT: Able to fornicate only while lying on the back

·         SYMPHOROPHILIA: Arousal by accidents or catastrophes

·         SYNGENESOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to one’s relatives

T

·         TAPHEPHILIA: Arousal from being buried alive

·         TAPHOPHILIA: Love of funerals

·         TELEOPHILIA: Affinity for religious ceremonies

·         TENTIGINOUS: Lascivious

·         TERATOPHILIA: Arousal from deformed or monstrous people

·         THALASSOPHILIA: Love of the sea

·         THASSOPHILIA: Attraction to sitting

·         THREPTEROPHILIA: A fondness for female nurses

·         THYGATRILAGNIA: A father’s sexual love for his daughter

·         TIMOPHILIA: Arousal from gold or wealth

·         TOCOPHILIA: Fondness for pregnancy and childbirth

·         TONITROPHILIA: Love of thunder

·         TOXIPHILIA: Attraction to poisons

·         TOXOPHILIA: Love of archery

·         TRAGALISM: Lust; lechery; obscenity

·         TRANSFEMINATE: To change from woman to man

·         TRAUMATOPHILIA: An unconscious desire to be injured

·         TRIBADISM: Mutual genital-fondling between lesbians

·         TRICHOPATHOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to hair

·         TRIPSOLAGNIA: Arousal from having hair shampooed

U

·         UNDINISM: The association of water with erotic thoughts

·         URANISM: Homosexuality

·         URANOPHILIA: Sexual arousal by heavenly thoughts

·         UROLAGNIA: Sexual pleasure from urinating

·         URTICATION: The use of nettles to create extra sensation

·         UXORAVALENT: Only able to attain sex extramaritally (applied to men)

·         UXOROVALENT: Able to score only with one’s wife

V

·         VACCINOPHILIA: Turned on by becoming vaccinated

·         VAMPIRISM: Consuming blood of a partner for arousal

·         VICARPHILIA: Arousal from other people's exciting experiences

·         VINCILAGNIA: Arousal from bondage

·         VIRAGINITY: Masculinity in a woman

·         VIRGIN: You really need to ask?

·         VIRIMIMISM: Adoption of masculinity

·         VIRIPOTENT: Sexually mature

·         VITRICOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to one’s stepfather

W

·         WETHER: A castrated ram

·         WHELP: To bear offspring

·         WHIRLYGIGS: Testicles

·         WITTOL: A husband who tolerates his wife’s infidelity

X

·         XENODYNAMIC: Person who is only potent with strangers

·         XENOPHILIA: An attraction to foreign customs, traditions, and foreigners

·         XERONISUS: Inability to reach orgasm

·         XYLOPHILIA: Turned on by wooden objects

Y

·         YELD: Not old enough to procreate

·         YLOPHILIA: Affinity for forests

·         YONI WORSHIP: Worship of the female genitals

Z

·         ZELOPHILIA: Sexual arousal from jealousy

·         ZOOERASTIA: Sexual intercourse with an animal

·         ZOOPHILIA: One who is strongly attracted to animals in a spiritual, sexual, or emotional sense

·         ZWISCHENSTUFE: Arousal from a person of the same sex